thoughts on a movie: He's just not that into you

Continuation of post from my cellblogsite: http://thoughtsfrommycellphone.blogspot.com/

'he's just not that into you.' perfectly captures the classical conditioning that gets woman to keep pursing relationships with people that are not interested in them. This starts with their mothers and than later their friends and family who work in cooperation with the guy who is nice enough to lead a girl on, but mean enough to not tell her "I'm just not that into you."Of course the guys are at fault as well, and/or the woman who are leading people on. This behavior though is amazing in a poetic justice sense, because those woman who are classically trained to follow these ques reject guys that they have interest in, because the guy is not stand-offish enough for them. The best part of all though, is those people guilty of leading people on, and chasing those who are uninterested...when they do find love, they find themselves unable to love.